Have an Emergency Plan
Stress is a natural part of line. But what is not natural is allowing it to control you life!
Step 1:
Identify the stressor.
A coworker, your boss, an overbearing family member, travel or yearly event (death or anniversary)
Step 2:
Identify the how you feel with the stressor is present.
Outraged, Suspicious, Frustrated, Belittled, Anxious…
Step 3:
Identify what you do to feel better.
Eat sweets, Binge Eat, Take it out on others, Cry…..
Step 4:
Identify how you want to feel during the stressor.
Confident, Calm, Empowered, Determined……
Step 5:
Identify activities that make you feel the way you want to feel during the stressor (step 4)
A long walk, Exercise, Journal, Coloring, Talking to a friend, Deep Breathing, A long bath with music and candles, up lifting or soothing music……
Step 6:
Implement the healthy activities.
Find a safe route to walk. Take a daily walk.
Buy your favorite coloring book and crayons.
Inform your friend that you need them as your buddy. Put your friend on speed daily!
Tips:
Write these healthy activities down so you have a reference with you everywhere you go.
Start practicing your healthy habits today. It takes 21 days to make a habit. The sooner you start
the sooner it will become second nature. Also, it will make easier to utilized the healthy habit
once the stressor is present.
****Remember****
Others will not change. You only have control to change yourself! You have the ability to determine how you will react to the stress!